{"id":2958,"date":"2025-06-19T10:41:27","date_gmt":"2025-06-19T10:41:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/?p=2958"},"modified":"2025-07-24T08:48:48","modified_gmt":"2025-07-24T08:48:48","slug":"arkadaslar-evleniyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/friends-getting-married\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00fcm Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z Evlenirken Nas\u0131l Mutlu Hissedersiniz?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bu blog yaz\u0131s\u0131, t\u00fcm arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n evlendi\u011fini g\u00f6ren bek\u00e2r H\u0131ristiyanlar i\u00e7indir. Onlar i\u00e7in mutlu olmak istiyorsunuz ama zorlan\u0131yorsunuz - anl\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-tl-dr-the-summary\">TL;DR: \u00d6zet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Her birimiz e\u015fsiziz ve s\u00f6z veriyorum ki a\u015fk hayat\u0131n\u0131z konusunda Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00fcvenirseniz, O sizin i\u00e7in her \u015feyi yapacakt\u0131r. Peki, o zaman gelene kadar, evlenen arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in nas\u0131l mutlu olabilirsiniz? Kendi hikayenizin ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n\u0131 beklerken ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in nas\u0131l sevin\u00e7 bulabilirsiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#h-focus-on-your-personal-growth\">Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fiminize Odaklan\u0131n<\/a>&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-celebrate-their-happiness\">Mutluluklar\u0131n\u0131 Kutlay\u0131n<\/a>&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-build-a-strong-support-network\">G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc Bir Destek A\u011f\u0131 Olu\u015fturun<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-redefine-your-timeline\">Zaman \u00c7izelgenizi Yeniden Tan\u0131mlay\u0131n<\/a>&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#h-gratitude-over-comparison\">Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma Yerine Minnettarl\u0131k<\/a>&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Facebook'ta bir sonraki ni\u015fan payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde asla bir ac\u0131 hissetmeyece\u011finizi mi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum? Hay\u0131r. Ba\u015fka bir ili\u015fki duyurusuyla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ya da arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z durumlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcncelledi\u011finde kalbiniz hala biraz hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 hissedebilir. Mutlu olabilir ve kendiniz i\u00e7in h\u00e2l\u00e2 umut besleyebilirsiniz. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n yard\u0131m\u0131yla, O'nun size kar\u015f\u0131 de\u011fil, sizin yan\u0131n\u0131zda oldu\u011funu bilerek bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u00d6yleyse, sizden \u00f6nce evlenseler bile arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten sevin\u00e7 duyabilmeniz i\u00e7in konuya girelim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bekar\u0131m ve Mutlu \u00c7iftleri K\u0131skan\u0131yorum... ve Noel&#039;de bu \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/iqCaussU5SA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intro\">Giri\u015f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Romantik komediyi hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musunuz? <em>27 Elbiseler<\/em>? Katherine Heigl'\u0131n karakteri \"her zaman nedime, asla gelin de\u011fil\" s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fckemmel bir \u015fekilde somutla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. Neredeyse akla gelebilecek her t\u00fcr d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn i\u00e7in bir elbisesi vard\u0131. Yine de sonunda a\u015fk\u0131 buldu\u011funda arkada\u015flar\u0131 ona destek oldu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ge\u00e7enlerde bir Hristiyan Bekarlar toplulu\u011funda bekar bir kad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6nderisine rastlad\u0131m. Arkada\u015f\u0131 evleniyordu ve onun i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten mutlu olsa da, ayn\u0131 zamanda k\u0131skan\u00e7 hissediyordu. Kendisinin sahip olmad\u0131klar\u0131 \u00fczerinde durmadan arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n sevincini nas\u0131l kutlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilemiyordu. Her iki duygunun da bir arada var olabilece\u011fini bilmenizi isterim. Kendiniz i\u00e7in bir \u015fey istemeniz, ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten mutlu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asl\u0131nda, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Tanr\u0131 merkezli evlilikler yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek sizi cesaretlendirmelidir. Neden mi? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir krall\u0131k evlili\u011fine yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131k oluyorsan\u0131z, belki de Tanr\u0131 sizi neyin bekledi\u011fine dair bir i\u015faret veriyordur. Bu, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn gelecek y\u0131l olaca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na m\u0131 geliyor? Mutlaka de\u011fil. Ama Tanr\u0131 haz\u0131r oldu\u011funuzdan emin olmak i\u00e7in y\u00fcre\u011finizi s\u0131n\u0131yor olabilir. Bir papaz bir keresinde bunu Amazon teslimat\u0131n\u0131 beklemeye benzetmi\u015fti: kamyon soka\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdaysa, paketiniz eninde sonunda gelecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n uzun zamand\u0131r bekledi\u011fini biliyorum. Hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcne hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131n\u0131z. Belki biriyle \u00fc\u00e7 y\u0131l \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131ktan sonra ayr\u0131ld\u0131n\u0131z, arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z ise bir y\u0131ldan k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre i\u00e7inde ni\u015fanland\u0131. Yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey mi yap\u0131yorsunuz? Hay\u0131r. Unutmay\u0131n, a\u015fk hikayeniz size ait. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan ilham almak sorun olmasa da, onlar\u0131n zaman \u00e7izelgesini aynen takip etmek zorunda de\u011filsiniz. Baz\u0131 \u00e7iftler sadece iki y\u0131l sonra tan\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, di\u011ferleri e\u015fleriyle tan\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce aksiliklerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-focus-on-your-personal-growth-nbsp\">Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fiminize Odaklan\u0131n&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc biliyorum: \"Kendim \u00fczerinde daha ne kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam gerekiyor?\" Hepimiz nas\u0131l \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fine dair tavsiyeler duymu\u015fuzdur. <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bekarligi-kucaklamak\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Hristiyan bekarlar, bekarl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 kendileri \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in kullanmal\u0131d\u0131r<\/a>. Pek \u00e7ok ki\u015fi ge\u00e7mi\u015f travmalar\u0131n\u0131 iyile\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in Hristiyan dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na yat\u0131r\u0131m yap\u0131yor, ancak yine de \"Daha ne kadar yapmam gerekiyor?\" diye merak ediyor olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sosyal medyada \"Daha ne yapmam gerekiyor?\" diye soran yorumlar g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Ben her \u015feyi yapt\u0131m!\" A\u00e7\u0131k olal\u0131m; geli\u015fmek i\u00e7in her zaman yer vard\u0131r. \u0130sa'ya daha \u00e7ok benzemek i\u00e7in s\u00fcrekli geli\u015fmeliyiz. Bu neden \u00f6nemlidir? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015fu anda kimseniz, \"Kabul ediyorum\" dedi\u011finizde de ayn\u0131 ki\u015fi olacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Baz\u0131 insanlar d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde sihirli bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ama bu do\u011fru de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-for-the-long-term\">Uzun vadede<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kendisi sadece bir t\u00f6rendir. Elbette e\u011flence, yemek, m\u00fczik, kahkaha ve dans da vard\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n fark etmedi\u011fi \u015fey, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fczden \u00f6nce nas\u0131l biriyseniz, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fczden sonra da \u00f6yle kalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 \u015fey e\u015finiz i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir. E\u011fer \u015fu anda g\u00fcven sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z varsa, onlar da bunu g\u00f6receklerdir. E\u011fer ileti\u015fim konusunda sorun ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z, onlar da bunu deneyimleyecektir. Dinlemekte zorlan\u0131yorsan\u0131z veya her zaman hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, evlilik zorlay\u0131c\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neyin iyile\u015ftirilmesi gerekti\u011fini belirlemenin bir yolu da Tanr\u0131'dan y\u00fcre\u011finizi ara\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 istemektir. O'ndan a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekenleri ortaya \u00e7\u0131karmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyin. Haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olun - Tanr\u0131 perdeyi aralayacakt\u0131r. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz her \u015fey ho\u015funuza gitmeyebilir, ancak kendinizin fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda O'ndan yard\u0131m isteyin. Ger\u00e7ek mahkum etmez; b\u00fcy\u00fcmek i\u00e7in \u0130sa'ya ve Kutsal Ruh'un rehberli\u011fine olan ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Mezmur 139:23'\u00fcn dedi\u011fi gibi, \"Ey Tanr\u0131, ara beni, y\u00fcre\u011fimi tan\u0131; dene beni, kayg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 bil.\" Tanr\u0131 bizi herkesten daha iyi tan\u0131r, bu nedenle y\u00fcre\u011finizde neyin de\u011fi\u015fmesi gerekti\u011fini bildi\u011fine g\u00fcvenin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir ba\u015fka yol da g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz \u00e7evrenize \"Benimle ilgili daha iyi olabilecek bir \u015fey var m\u0131?\" diye sormakt\u0131r. Size sevgiyle d\u00fcr\u00fcst yan\u0131tlar vereceklerdir. Her \u015feyiniz yanl\u0131\u015f de\u011fil ama objektif bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 edinmek b\u00fcy\u00fcmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-celebrate-their-happiness\">Mutluluklar\u0131n\u0131 Kutlay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Evlenmeden \u00f6nce lisedeki s\u0131n\u0131f arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n Facebook payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fc hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Bir\u00e7o\u011fu ni\u015fanlan\u0131yor ya da e\u015fleriyle hamileliklerini duyuruyorlard\u0131. \u0130lk ba\u015fta bu payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n beni k\u0131skand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 itiraf etmeliyim. Bir \u015feyleri mi ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131yorum diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Onlar\u0131n sahip olup da benim sahip olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ne var?\" Sonra kendimi ba\u015fka bir vaaz dinlerken buldum. Vaazda, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bazen y\u00fcre\u011finizi s\u0131namak i\u00e7in ne istedi\u011finizi size \u00f6nceden g\u00f6sterece\u011fine dair bir mesaj payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130ncil'deki Davut'u d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Kral olmadan \u00f6nce bir krala hizmet etti. Bu kolay de\u011fildi, \u00f6zellikle de Saul onu \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeyi planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda. Davut masumdu, ama Saul Tanr\u0131'dan o kadar uzakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ki, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatay\u0131 g\u00f6remedi. Yine de Davut onu onurland\u0131rd\u0131 ve sonunda Saul'un \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne bile yas tuttu. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Davut'u kendi y\u00fcre\u011fine uygun bir adam olarak g\u00f6rmesine \u015fa\u015fmamal\u0131. Peki ya siz? Tam da istedi\u011finiz \u015feye sahip olan birini onurland\u0131rabilir ve onunla birlikte sevinebilir misiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-don-t-let-envy-take-root\">K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n k\u00f6k salmas\u0131na izin verme<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n y\u00fcreklerimizi s\u0131namas\u0131yla ilgili \u00f6\u011fretiyi duydu\u011fumda, kendimi mahk\u00fbm edilmi\u015f hissettim. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n k\u00f6k salmas\u0131n\u0131 istemiyordum. Ayr\u0131ca, s\u0131n\u0131f arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015fini bilmiyordum, bu y\u00fczden evliliklerinde neler ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 kim bilebilir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n sosyal medyada \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kan foto\u011fraflar\u0131na imreniyoruz ama perde arkas\u0131nda neler oldu\u011funu bilmiyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nternette g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz baz\u0131 ili\u015fkiler Tanr\u0131sal ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olsa da, hepsi \u00f6yle de\u011fildir. Baz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z belaya bile g\u00f6z dikiyor olabilir. En iyi arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 evlendi\u011fi i\u00e7in k\u0131skan\u0131yor olabilirsiniz, ama ya erkek arkada\u015f\u0131na evlenme teklif etmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6d\u00fcn vermi\u015f ya da onu manip\u00fcle etmi\u015fse? Ya ili\u015fkisi zehirliyse ve sadece yaln\u0131z kalmak istemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in raz\u0131 oluyorsa? Bunu hi\u00e7 k\u0131skanm\u0131yorum, siz de k\u0131skanmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n l\u00fctfetti\u011fi ki\u015filer i\u00e7in mutluluklar\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten kutlayabiliriz. Kalbime yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in ni\u015fan ve duyuru hikayelerini kutlamaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. \"Tebrikler\" diye yorum yapt\u0131m ve hatta \u015fahsen tan\u0131mad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 da kutlad\u0131m. Sonra o d\u00f6nemde birka\u00e7 Hristiyan influencer'\u0131 takip ettim ve baz\u0131lar\u0131 ni\u015fanland\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 duyurdu. Onlar\u0131 kutsayan yorumlar yapt\u0131m ve Tanr\u0131'dan birlikteliklerini kutsamas\u0131n\u0131 diledim. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz gibi, onlar i\u00e7in bunu yapan Tanr\u0131 sizin i\u00e7in de yapabilir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duyman\u0131za gerek yok. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in kendi hik\u00e2yesi var. Beklemek zordur, anl\u0131yorum, ama her zaman buna de\u011fer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/IMG_9663-1-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"k\u00f6r randevu\" class=\"wp-image-2580\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/IMG_9663-1-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/IMG_9663-1-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/IMG_9663-1-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/IMG_9663-1-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/IMG_9663-1-1-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/IMG_9663-1-1-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-build-a-strong-support-network\">G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc Bir Destek A\u011f\u0131 Olu\u015fturun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen i\u00e7inizi d\u00f6kmeniz gerekir. Yarg\u0131lamadan ya da kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmadan nas\u0131l hissetti\u011finizi payla\u015fman\u0131z gereken zamanlar vard\u0131r. Evet, H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak Kutsal Kitap'\u0131 biliyoruz ve bu her zaman rehberimiz olmal\u0131d\u0131r, ancak Mezmurlar'da bile Davut'un y\u00fcre\u011fini Tanr\u0131'ya nas\u0131l d\u00f6kt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Kendini tutmad\u0131. Ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 gizlemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131 ya da \u015fekerle kaplamad\u0131. Tanr\u0131 i\u00e7imizde neler olup bitti\u011fini bilir, bu y\u00fczden biz de O'na kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst olabiliriz. Bazen H\u0131ristiyanlar olarak her zaman \"ruhani\" g\u00f6r\u00fcnme ihtiyac\u0131 hissederiz. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir imanl\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in maske takman\u0131za gerek yoktur. Payla\u015f\u0131mda bulunabilece\u011finiz bir \u00e7evrenizin olmas\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Elbette sizi Tanr\u0131 S\u00f6z\u00fc'ne y\u00f6nlendireceklerdir, ama \u00f6nce omuzlar\u0131nda a\u011flaman\u0131za izin vereceklerdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O\u011flunu uyu\u015fturucudan kaybeden ya\u015fl\u0131 ve bek\u00e2r bir anneye ba\u015fsa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 dilemeye giden gen\u00e7 bir papazla ilgili bir hik\u00e2ye duymu\u015ftum. Kad\u0131n \u00e7ok k\u0131zg\u0131nd\u0131. Papaz gen\u00e7 oldu\u011fu ve hizmetinde hala olgunla\u015fmakta oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in, bir s\u00fcr\u00fc Kutsal Yaz\u0131'dan al\u0131nt\u0131 yapman\u0131n yard\u0131mc\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f. Kad\u0131n bir H\u0131ristiyand\u0131, yani inanm\u0131yor de\u011fildi, ama sadece birinin onunla oturmas\u0131na ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131. A\u011flarken sadece elini tutacak birine ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131. Daha sonra, papaz ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a, biri ac\u0131 \u00e7ekti\u011finde bazen kelimelere her zaman ihtiya\u00e7 duyulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-your-community\">Toplumunuz<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eeffaf olabilece\u011finiz bir destek sisteminiz var m\u0131? \u015e\u00f6yle diyebilirsiniz: \"Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00fcveniyorum ama k\u0131zg\u0131n\u0131m. Bu benim i\u00e7in neden ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmedi? Neyi yanl\u0131\u015f yap\u0131yorum?\" Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z daha sonra sizin i\u00e7in dua edebilir. Daha sonra okuman\u0131z i\u00e7in size ayetler g\u00f6nderebilirler, ama \u00f6nce araya girip size sar\u0131labilirler. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, ba\u015fka bir insan\u0131n size sar\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n sakinle\u015ftirdi\u011fini ve kayg\u0131y\u0131 azaltt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n S\u00f6z\u00fc g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr -her k\u0131l\u0131\u00e7tan daha keskindir ve kemiklerimize sa\u011fl\u0131k getirir- ama ayn\u0131 zamanda insani ba\u011flar\u0131 da O yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla konu\u015fmak ya da yak\u0131n bir karde\u015finize i\u00e7inizi d\u00f6kmek iyi hissettirir. \u00d6zellikle umutsuzluk zamanlar\u0131nda destek almak paha bi\u00e7ilemezdir. Bu dostluklara y\u00f6nelin ve e\u011fer b\u00f6yle bir dostlu\u011funuz yoksa, Tanr\u0131'dan \u00f6ncelikle bir dost olarak kendinizi g\u00f6stermenize yard\u0131m etmesini isteyin. Ba\u015fka birine nas\u0131l destek olabilir ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda nas\u0131l kutsanabilir ve cesaretlendirilebilirsiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunun y\u00fcz y\u00fcze bir konu\u015fma olmas\u0131na bile gerek yok. Tanr\u0131 beni 2019'da Hristiyan bekarlar\u0131 cesaretlendirmek i\u00e7in Single Plus adl\u0131 bir podcast ba\u015flatmaya y\u00f6nlendirdi. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla payla\u015farak Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n kendi kalbimde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyordum. S\u00f6zlerimle teselli bulan pek \u00e7ok kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fi cesaretlendiren biri oldum. Rab sizi nas\u0131l y\u00f6nlendirirse y\u00f6nlendirsin, bu bekarl\u0131k d\u00f6nemini bir a\u011f kurmak i\u00e7in kullan\u0131n. O'nun d\u00fcrt\u00fcklemelerini takip edin ve bunun sadece ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, sizi de nas\u0131l kutsad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-redefine-your-timeline\">Zaman \u00c7izelgenizi Yeniden Tan\u0131mlay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130tiraf etmeliyim ki ben de ne zaman evlenmek istedi\u011fine dair bir zaman \u00e7izelgesi olan kad\u0131nlardan biriydim. Annem babamla yirmi alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda evlendi\u011fi i\u00e7in benim hik\u00e2yemin de b\u00f6yle olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Hatta \u015f\u00f6yle dua etti\u011fimi bile hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum: \"Tanr\u0131m, sen insanlara sayg\u0131 duymazs\u0131n. E\u011fer annemi yirmi alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda evlendirebildiysen, bunu benim i\u00e7in de yapabilirsin.\" Bu dua yirmi alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k buldu mu? Hay\u0131r. Yirmi sekiz ya\u015f\u0131ma geldi\u011fimde, \"Sorun de\u011fil. Tanr\u0131 sadece birka\u00e7 y\u0131l geride kald\u0131.\" Yine yan\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-story-nbsp\">Benim hikayem&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ben ne zaman evlendim? Otuz iki ya\u015f\u0131mda, 2023'te otuz \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131ma girmeden bir ay \u00f6nce. Bir zamanlar daha erken olmas\u0131n\u0131 istemi\u015f olsam da, \u015fimdi daha gen\u00e7ken evlenmedi\u011fim i\u00e7in memnunum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Birincisi, kocam o zamanlar kurtulmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u0130sa Mesih'i 2015 y\u0131l\u0131na kadar itiraf etmedi. O zamanlar yirmi be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m ve bir y\u0131l sonra tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f olsayd\u0131k bile yine de iman\u0131 olgunla\u015fmam\u0131\u015f olurdu. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n onun y\u00fcre\u011fi \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in zamana ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bana gelince, Tanr\u0131 2015'te bana iyile\u015ftirmem gereken \u00e7ok \u015fey oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterdi-\u00f6zellikle m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7ilik ve kendime kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ok kat\u0131 olma konusunda. Kolay olmad\u0131 ama bu y\u00fck\u00fc evlili\u011fime ta\u015f\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in minnettar\u0131m. Bu, kocam ve benim \u015fu anda m\u00fckemmel oldu\u011fumuz anlam\u0131na m\u0131 geliyor? Hay\u0131r, hala \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z gereken \u015feyler var. Ama \"Evet\" demeden \u00f6nce bunlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funu Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n halletmesine izin verdi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in, s\u00fcre\u00e7 o kadar da zor de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-surrender-the-timeline\">Zaman \u00e7izelgesini teslim edin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Zaman \u00e7izelgemden vazge\u00e7mek zorunda kald\u0131m. Elbette, umdu\u011fumdan yakla\u015f\u0131k yedi y\u0131l sonra evlenebildim ama bu Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n gecikti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmiyor. Geride de\u011fildi ve beni mutsuz etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131yordu. F\u0131r\u0131nda yemek pi\u015firdi\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. \u00c7ok erken \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rsan\u0131z ve ortas\u0131 \u00e7i\u011f kal\u0131rsa, tekrar f\u0131r\u0131na koyars\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc daha fazla zamana ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu bilirsiniz. Beklerken bir \u015feyler at\u0131\u015ft\u0131rabilirsiniz ama bu sizi ger\u00e7ekten tatmin etmez. Ya nimetinizin ortas\u0131 hala \"\u00e7i\u011f\" ise? Pi\u015fmi\u015f mi yoksa \u00e7i\u011f mi olsun istersiniz? \"H\u00e2l\u00e2 bek\u00e2r m\u0131s\u0131n?\" sorular\u0131ndan b\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in \"at\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmal\u0131klara\" (sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011finiz insanlara) m\u0131 raz\u0131 oluyorsunuz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Papaz Michael Todd'un bir vaaz\u0131nda dedi\u011fi gibi, \"B\u0131rak\u0131n O pi\u015firsin.\" Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n yapmas\u0131 gerekeni yapmas\u0131na izin verin. Acele etmeyin ya da zorlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. \u0130brahim ve Sara Hacer'i evliliklerine ald\u0131klar\u0131nda b\u00f6yle yapt\u0131lar. Elbette Tanr\u0131 \u0130smail'i kutsad\u0131, ama vaat edilen \u00e7ocuk o de\u011fildi, \u0130shak't\u0131. Tanr\u0131'y\u0131 beklersek baz\u0131 m\u00fccadelelerden ka\u00e7\u0131nabiliriz. Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n plan\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7en ve \u015fimdi hayat boyu s\u00fcrecek sonu\u00e7larla y\u00fczle\u015fen \u00e7ok say\u0131da H\u0131ristiyan bek\u00e2r\u0131n hik\u00e2yesini duydum. Bunu yapmak zorunda de\u011filsiniz. Ne olursa olsun bug\u00fcn Tanr\u0131'ya g\u00fcvenmeyi se\u00e7ebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-gratitude-over-comparison-nbsp\">Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma Yerine Minnettarl\u0131k&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sahip olmad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n bizi neyle kutsad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6remeyiz. Tamam, \u015fu anda evli olmayabilirsiniz ama bug\u00fcn Tanr\u0131'ya ne i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fckredebilirsiniz? Zehirli bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7inde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ger\u00e7e\u011fine ne dersiniz? Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n son ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan sonra kalbinizi nas\u0131l iyile\u015ftirdi\u011fine ne dersiniz? Eski sevgilinizi affetmeniz biraz zaman ald\u0131 ama affettiniz ve art\u0131k ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmiyorsunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sizi seven bir yak\u0131n \u00e7evreniz ya da aileniz var m\u0131? Bu Tanr\u0131'ya \u015f\u00fckretmek i\u00e7in bir nedendir. Genel olarak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? Tanr\u0131'ya \u015f\u00fckredin. Karanl\u0131\u011fa ra\u011fmen d\u00fcnyada g\u00fczellik var m\u0131? G\u00fcn bat\u0131m\u0131 hala nefes kesici mi? Bu da Tanr\u0131'ya \u015f\u00fckretmek i\u00e7in bir ba\u015fka nedendir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-entitlement\">Hak Sahipli\u011fi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne yaz\u0131k ki baz\u0131 H\u0131ristiyan bek\u00e2rlar, \u00f6zellikle de do\u011fru ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ya da itaatk\u00e2r olduklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlarsa, istedikleri her \u015feye haklar\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Tanr\u0131 onlara beklediklerini vermedi\u011finde, \"O zaman Tanr\u0131'ya itaat etmenin ne anlam\u0131 var?\" diye merak ederler. Tanr\u0131'ya sadece bereket almak i\u00e7in itaat etmeyiz. \u0130taat ederiz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc O'nun bize ger\u00e7ekten \"bor\u00e7lu\" oldu\u011fu tek \u015fey O'ndan tamamen ayr\u0131lmakt\u0131r. G\u00fcnah\u0131m\u0131z aram\u0131zdaki ba\u011f\u0131 kopard\u0131, ama Tanr\u0131 bu ba\u011f\u0131 yeniden kurmak i\u00e7in \u0130sa'y\u0131 g\u00f6nderdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Minnettar olmam\u0131z gereken bir numaral\u0131 \u015fey Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n ruhlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kurtarm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bunu yapmak zorunda de\u011fildi ama yapt\u0131. Bizler Mesih'in geliniyiz - O bizim ilk a\u015fk\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n Yarat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131'n\u0131n bizi sevdi\u011fini bilmek minnettar olunacak bir \u015feydir. Evet, bir e\u015fin sevgisi harikad\u0131r, ama Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sevgisiyle k\u0131yasland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda devede kulak kal\u0131r. E\u011fer daha \u00f6nce <a href=\"https:\/\/nrb.ttm.mybluehost.me\/tr\/bekarlik-veya-evlilik\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ili\u015fki durumunuz nedeniyle nank\u00f6r<\/a>Tanr\u0131'dan yeniden odaklanman\u0131za yard\u0131m etmesini isteyin. Bu zaman alabilir, ama isterseniz size yard\u0131m edecektir. O zaman arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z sizden \u00f6nce evlenirse onlar i\u00e7in mutlu olabilirsiniz, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in \u00f6zel bir \u015feyi oldu\u011funu bilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendinizi ortaya koymaya haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? SALT'\u0131 indirin <a href=\"https:\/\/www.be-salt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Arkada\u015fl\u0131k uygulamas\u0131<\/a> bug\u00fcn <a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/websiteurl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Hristiyan bekarlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n<\/a>!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This blog post is for single Christians who are seeing all their friends get married. You want to feel happy for them but you&#8217;re struggling &#8211; we get it. TL;DR: The Summary Each of us is unique, and I promise that if you trust God with your love life, He will come through for you. 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